Host the Perfect Holiday Dinner Party

‘Tis the season to be jolly – and attend fabulous holiday dinner parties, fa la la! If you’re a student on a budget like me, and are brave enough to take on the touted position of host, then you're probably aware of the unwritten guidelines one must follow in order to host a successful party. If you’re new to the game, then you’ve come to the right place.

Hors d'oeuvres and drinks relax guests and encourage conversation

First things first: you’ve got to set the date.

When picking the date, be mindful of other parties around the same time. You wouldn’t want to double-book and run the risk of missing a friend’s party – or worse, no one showing up to yours! 

What good is a dinner party without any guests? Make a guest list.

Think of how big you want your party to be. Who gets along? More importantly, who doesn’t. Are guests allowed to bring a plus one? These are all things to consider. Send out your invites ASAP so that you’ve nailed down your chosen night and reserved your buddies. Paperless Post is fantastic for e-vite templates.

Paperless Post has great templates for any occasion

Next, you’ve got to tackle the most important part: planning your menu.

If you’re cooking for everyone, it’s important to offer delicious options. Be sure to ask your friends about any allergies they may have, and don’t forget about the vegans and vegetarians. Sometimes it’s easier to do your dinner in a potluck style. This way, there are alternatives and you’re not left with all the hard work. Don’t forget about cocktails – be sure to inform your guests if it’s BYOB.

Who can complain about decorations?

It’s time for you to get creative. You can pick a fun theme, like Ugly Sweater Party or Apres-ski, or just decorate in the spirit of the holidays – Christmas, Hanukkah, or even Chrismukkah! You don’t have to spend a lot of money, as the dollar store has great options, and you might have some useful stuff tucked away in your basement that you’ve forgotten about.

Spice up a table setting with a fun-filled Christmas cracker

Finally, you’ve got to prepare a music playlist.

Lots of hearty holiday food can put anyone to sleep, so a great music playlist helps to keep the party going, and your guests awake! Match the playlist to your theme, stick in some fun songs from your high school days, or flip on satellite radio. Avoid slow songs to keep everyone engaged.

Friends wearing festive paper crowns

What's your secret to being the hostess with the mostess? 
What tips and tricks can you share for preparing a successful holiday dinner party?